Memories. They are the most unchangeable things when almost everything changed. Persons, relationships, and feelings change. And they undoubtedly hurt people who have loved so much.
Like a sword, fire is the change that melts an individual's life, molding it into a new refined piece. We don't have to fight the changes. We just have to face and accept them. Holding on to memories is the best way to overcome them.
Love comes, love goes and so does each person in your life. You can not keep them as long as you want for they would eventually leave if they intended to. Hard as it may seem, you need to let go. You need to give them space to find their selves. You need to let them be even when it's hurting you because that's the real essence of love, watching them leave though it gives you pain. When someone is truly destined for you, he/she would come back after he/she has seen the worst and the best faces of the world. That person would come back and lie in your arms knowing they found the real home in you.
Love is just a cycle of finding, keeping, hurting, letting go, growing,moving and finding love again. It is also synonymous with life. And as long as you know how to deal with it, you'll absolutely find ways to be happy. Despite everything you've gone through, you will choose to be happy even when there's no hope in finding it, you will know how to, because you dealt with life, you dealt with pain. And you felt them until it hurts no more. You don't have to be sad all the way. You just have to understand, deal with it, and let it be. And you always have to remember that it is still best to let go, move on, and grow. For when something/someone is really meant for you, he/she would come to you willingly without making the person do so.
So just live life, let go, move on, and.....grow.
Like a sword, fire is the change that melts an individual's life, molding it into a new refined piece. We don't have to fight the changes. We just have to face and accept them. Holding on to memories is the best way to overcome them.
Love comes, love goes and so does each person in your life. You can not keep them as long as you want for they would eventually leave if they intended to. Hard as it may seem, you need to let go. You need to give them space to find their selves. You need to let them be even when it's hurting you because that's the real essence of love, watching them leave though it gives you pain. When someone is truly destined for you, he/she would come back after he/she has seen the worst and the best faces of the world. That person would come back and lie in your arms knowing they found the real home in you.
Love is just a cycle of finding, keeping, hurting, letting go, growing,moving and finding love again. It is also synonymous with life. And as long as you know how to deal with it, you'll absolutely find ways to be happy. Despite everything you've gone through, you will choose to be happy even when there's no hope in finding it, you will know how to, because you dealt with life, you dealt with pain. And you felt them until it hurts no more. You don't have to be sad all the way. You just have to understand, deal with it, and let it be. And you always have to remember that it is still best to let go, move on, and grow. For when something/someone is really meant for you, he/she would come to you willingly without making the person do so.
So just live life, let go, move on, and.....grow.
